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Rustic Chic: The Perfect Wedding Venue 

The Perfect Choice: Rustic Chic Wedding Venue

“Where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay forever.”

 — Unknown

 

A wedding is a magical event that symbolizes the union of two souls in love, and choosing the perfect wedding venue plays a vital role in making this special day truly unforgettable. The concept of a rustic-chic wedding venue has gained immense popularity in recent years, as it offers couples the opportunity to celebrate their love in a unique and picturesque setting. This blog explores the significance of a rustic-chic wedding venue as the most trending venue and discusses the factors to consider when making this important decision. 

Baqara is located in beautiful Runnells IA which is only a 20 minute drive from downtown Des Moines, and a free of gravel roads! Baqara is a perfect rustic chic wedding venue. Choosing a rustic-chic venue for a wedding has become increasingly popular among couples in recent years.This style combines elements of both rustic and elegant aesthetics, creating a charming and romantic atmosphere. There are several reasons why couples opt for Baqara:

    1. Natural Beauty: Rustic-chic venues are often set in picturesque locations, such as barns, farms or gardens. These venues offer a stunning backdrop of natural beauty, with lush landscapes, rolling hills, or rustic architecture. The organic and serene environment adds a touch of enchantment to the wedding, creating a magical ambiance for the couple and their guests.
    2. Unique and Quaint Charm: Rustic-chic venues exude a unique charm that sets them apart from traditional wedding venues. The vintage and rustic elements, such as exposed wooden beams, aged brick walls, or weathered barn doors, create a warm and inviting atmosphere. The venue’s character and history contribute to the overall appeal, allowing couples to celebrate their special day in a distinctive and memorable setting.
    3. Versatility and Flexibility: Rustic-chic venues often offer versatile spaces that can be transformed to suit various wedding styles and themes. Whether couples prefer a romantic and intimate affair or a grand celebration, these venues provide flexibility for customization. The open spaces allow for creative décor arrangements, personalized touches, and unique seating layouts, giving couples the freedom to design their dream wedding.
    4. Relaxed and Intimate Ambiance: Rustic-chic venues often provide a more relaxed and intimate setting compared to traditional ballrooms or banquet halls. The cozy and laid-back atmosphere creates a sense of familiarity and comfort, allowing guests to feel more at ease and enjoy the celebration. The natural surroundings and rustic charm contribute to a more intimate ambiance, fostering a stronger connection among family and friends.
    5. Blend of Elegance and Simplicity: The rustic-chic style seamlessly blends elegance with simplicity. The combination of refined details, such as delicate chandeliers, fine linens, or floral arrangements, with rustic elements, like wooden tables, burlap accents, or mason jar centerpieces, creates a harmonious balance. This fusion appeals to couples seeking a wedding that is both sophisticated and down-to-earth, with a touch of rustic charm.
    6. Photography Opportunities: Rustic-chic venues often offer a plethora of stunning backdrops for wedding photography. From sun-dappled fields to weathered barns or enchanting gardens, these venues provide numerous opportunities for capturing beautiful and memorable moments. The natural lighting and rustic elements add depth and character to the photographs, resulting in breathtaking imagery.

    Conclusion: Couples choosing Baqara, a rustic-chic wedding venue feels exciting and made an important decision that significantly impacts the overall experience on their special day recently. From the captivating setting and intimate celebrations to the natural beauty, versatility, intimate ambiance, and blend of elegance and simplicity make this venue an appealing choice for couples seeking a wedding experience that is both romantic and unforgettable. After carefully considering the preferences and desires of the couple, along with the practical aspects of logistics and guest accommodation, a wedding venue can be transformed into a dreamlike location that leaves an indelible mark on everyone’s hearts. Ultimately, Baqara, a well-chosen rustic-chic wedding venue sets the stage for an enchanting celebration of love, creating cherished memories that will be cherished for a lifetime.

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    Planning for Rain on Your Wedding Day

    Isn’t it ironic…. Rain on your Wedding Day? Just a little too ironic. You Ms. Wizard cannot change the forecast, nor can you alter the weather during your wedding day. But what you can do is understand your options and discuss this with your vendors ahead of time. Experienced vendors have already discussed this with you and let you know what all of the “Plan B’s” are, but you don’t always know if your wedding vendor is who they advertise. 

    Therefore, here is a list of options for you if your outdoor
    wedding does not go as planned:

    1) Have an indoor space on reserve and make the decision to move it. Sometimes it just doesn’t matter how long you stare at the radar, that rain just won’t stop. A lot of the decision comes
    down to timing though. Some venues require a decision to be made days before on an indoor vs outdoor wedding due to setup of chairs and spaces. Therefore, this needs to be discussed with
    your venue in advance to determine available spaces, requirements, and flexibility.

    2) Wait out the storm and make a last-minute decision. Some venues can audible quickly and can wait until the last minute for a decision to be made on an outdoor wedding. If things are moved indoor last minute, guests will most likely sit at their tables during the ceremony and the ceremony may be held on the dance floor, in front of the head table, in an open space available in a larger venue, etc. If things can happen outside last minute because there is a break in the weather, staff will need time to dry off chairs, set any décor or floral, and ensure a safe, non-slick walk path for guests.

    3) Move your ceremony time. Maybe there is a break in the weather at 7:00pm and it will continue to rain through the scheduled ceremony time of 5:00pm. An experienced and easy-
    going wedding coordinator can arrange this with the DJ, photographer, and caterer by doing a“soon to be Mr. and Mrs.” grand entrance and go right into dinner. Then you might be able to go from dinner and drinks to a ceremony, followed by speeches and special dances. This takes coordination but it can be done and everything feels planned and accounted for, regardless what some vendors may thing of the idea. Working outside of the norms does tend to freak some people out so just make sure you trust your coordinator fully.

    4) Buy 200 cheap umbrellas and let’s do this thang!!! 

    Regardless the situation with weather, keep calm and enjoy the day. Rain happens and all you can do is go with the flow at that point. No stress drinking, no yelling, and no crying over Mother Nature. She is an unpredictable force regardless of what those overpaid weather-men tell us.

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    VENUE….ENDO

    “Hi, my name is [insert name]. Welcome to my wedding venue. Congratulations on your engagement. Let me show you around and let me know if you have questions. We seat [select number] people, we include [set-up, cleaning, tables, moral support, etc], and we cost [insert ridiculous dollar amount that includes 4 walls and a roof] for a Saturday.”

    Have you heard that same ol’ song and dance before? Welcome to a wedding venue tour you first time, naive engaged couple. Be prepared to receive a sub-par sales pitch and a pamphlet with pretty pictures of someone else’s wedding. You want to know a secret though? Searching for the “right” wedding venue is like searching for a place to eat in a town you have never visited in which you are so hungry that you are choosing which of your arms you will start nibbling on first. Regardless of where you finally choose, you feel like it is the right choice because of your stomach’s desire to satisfy it’s craving. You won’t ever know if there was a better place because you are leaving town the next day and your goal was achieved. Your objective, if you so choose, is to pick a wedding venue that checks all of the boxes that are most important to you. But, do you even know what boxes to check since this is the first time you have been engaged? Mission Impossible. Let me give you some tidbits of advice on how to choose the right wedding venue.

    1) PRIORITIZE THE PRIZE

    Is the visual appearance #1 or is the service #1? Of course you want both to be amazing but set one above the other. If the appearance is at the top of your list, is the ceremony or the reception more important? If you are more focused on how the ceremony looks and feels, judge your venue on those marks first and foremost. If the reception space and the party pad check your first box, pay special attention to the proximity of the dance floor to the bar, look close at the head table and backdrop, and see if there is a fun patio for guests to be outside.

    If service is #1, then figure out what the venue offers that will make your wedding day smooth and easy so you can relax and enjoy the time with your fiancé, family and friends. Ask the following questions:

    1. Do they set up and tear down?
    2. Do they clean or do they charge additional cleaning fee?
    3. Does the venue include planning and/or day-of-coordinating?
    4. Do tables, chairs, linens, decorations, etc. come with the rental or are they separate?
    5. Is the venue open catering or do you have to go through a specific caterer?
    6. What time can you show up and what time do all guests have to leave?

    2) I NOW PRONOUCE, INSIDE OR OUTSIDE

    Do you want to have your wedding ceremony at the same place as the reception or are you having a church wedding? If you want to do the same location, does your venue have an indoor space or outdoor? If outdoor, is it paved or covered just incase of rain? If it is indoor, is it a separate space from the reception or will the space need to be flipped? Rain even the day before can have a huge impact on the ceremony space if it is grass. You don’t need all of your bridesmaids heals deep in mud.

    3) LAY OFF, I’M STARVING

    Does the venue require you to use their catering or their preferred caterer or is it open catering? This has a huge impact on the overall price for your wedding. Many venues that require you to use their food services or their preferred food vendor have higher food charges per person. Slightly counterintuitive but I will cover this in a separate blog post.

    4) DRINK A LITTLE DRINK

    Does the venue have a liquor license? If so, do they require a minimum dollar spent on alcohol? Are bartenders included in your rental price? Also, it seems like a given, but be sure you know what alcohol is available for your guests. Not all licenses include liquor and not all venues include variety. If you are expecting to be able to get a nice whiskey but the venue only caries Black Velvet, there isn’t much you can do about it the day of your wedding (this is in no way a bash on the classic BV). Serving alcohol to 200-300 people is a chore so be sure your venue is confident and versed in selling alcohol and has the setup and staff to be efficient.

    Finally, DO NOT SETTLE. If you need to visit 6-10 venues before one checks all of your boxes, then do so. Do not rush this process. As mentioned previously, you will never know if there was a better venue for you out there. So be sure to do your homework, visit the venues, and judge the venue on all merits of your big day. The venue tour better be the best tour you have ever been given as your wedding day should be one of the best days of your life.

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    ALL OF MY FRIENDS ARE BOOZERS

    You know the old saying; “You can lead a drunk to water, but you can’t get him to drink it… or maybe it’s a horse.” Either way, moral of the story is whoever came up with that saying definitely did not use this as a proverb to describe a wedding crowd. A wedding is a celebration of a marriage between two individuals. Alcohol is a source of courage in physically expressing your excitement for that marriage through incoherent dance. If you have never been to a “dry wedding” before, they are nice but they do miss that tingling sensation in your frontal cortex that tells you anything is possible tonight.

    When it comes to your wedding day, what you spend on your guests in terms of complimentary refreshments should be up to you. Now in some venues, this is not the case as they do require a certain minimum spent at the bar and it is part of their contract. This is a way to guarantee additional revenue per wedding for the venue owner. At the end of the day, it is something that you have to consider when booking a venue.

    There are many ways that you can gift your guests with the nectar of the Gods. Below are some options when it comes to complimentary alcohol at a wedding:

    1. Open Bar: You as the wedding couple pay for your guests all night long, or at least for a certain length of time. Keep in mind here that even though the guests are your family and friends, they have been waiting for you to buy them a never ending bar tab for the entire time you have known each other. In other words, this will rack up your tab with the venue in a hurry as there are no holds barred in this drunk fest.
    2. Cash Bar: Your guests pay for what they want to drink. This is a very cost effective option as it is no additional cost to you. Double check with you venue on if this is allowable though. One slight caveat though; your family and friends may see you as a cheap ass and bounce to the next party earlier than expected. This is your wedding, but this is their celebration (at least in their selfish little minds).
    3. Happy Hour / Time Limit: Open Bar until a certain time and then it is cash from there. Keep in mind though that a time limit is just a deadline with a loophole. The loophole being see how much alcohol ones body can sustain until time is up. Do not use this as a method to anticipate what your alcohol bill will be as your friends and family may surprise you.
    4. Prepaid Kegs, Cases of Wine or Selected Dollar Limit: You as the couple let your wedding know how much alcohol or how much money you are willing to give out to your guests. Once this is amount is drank, it is a cash bar through the rest of the night. This is a great give and take when it comes to your gift to your guests. After so much alcohol that you paid for, most of your drinkers will not care if they have to pay to keep that buzz going and will carry out the party regardless their bank accounts. I’m sure all venues will allow you to add on during the night of your wedding but at least you know what to expect in terms of a bar bill.

    Those are the main categories you can expect. Now some venues may offer tickets you can give out, some may offer items by the bottle or by the case or keg but for the most part, the above categories round out the ways to booze or not to booze.

    When you visit with your venues and talk about alcohol service, be sure you know and understand their requirements. Some venues allow you to bring in your own alcohol, some venues only have 5 cheap liquors to choose from, some only carry keg beer and no craft options, and some charge extra for bartenders. Not all wedding venues are equal when it comes to serving refreshments so be sure to ask about all of the details. The biggest thing you have to ask yourself though is if you think doing the “Cha Cha Slide” is more fun with alcohol or sugar water. You be the judge.

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    BEST way and BEST value!

    Time to order flowers! Where do I go and how do I do this? ……………… This is a good question…..My vote is to choose local! Please plan ahead by at least a few days if you want something specific. If you want something same day or the next morning, please trust your florist to create a designers choice arrangement. It will be amazing, I promise!

    To get the best value, call your florist directly! WHY?! You get to talk to your designer! So fun and personal and you can talk budget and may get FREE delivery too!

    Choose local and I promise your order will be taken care of and much appreciated!

    Send flowers today and make someone’s month!!! <3

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    Flowers Just Die.

    Can we say cringeworthy?! These are the last words a florist wants to hear from ANYONE. ESPECIALLY friends and family. Yet we do.

    Can I say something that may be obvious?

    I KNOW FLOWERS DIE! Crazy right?

    THAT IS THE POINT!

    Flowers are like produce right? Grown just for you and amazing at their peak. You buy produce to eat then it turns into what? We all know that answer….

    Flowers actually last longer then that banana you just ate.

    Their life span is short and SPECIAL!

    They were made up just for you for whatever reason and are yours to enjoy.

    Its a proven fact that flowers MAKE US HAPPY!

    Crazy right.

    So. The next time you want to make someone feel special, send flowers…which means you are sending feelings. Yes, feelings.

    And that my friend, is a memory that I would love to instill to my loved ones.

    What about you?

    Would you rather be that guy that says Flowers just die, or the guy that sent flowers to make his loved ones feel special?

    I know what I choose.

    <3 <3 <3 Hope to chat soon!

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    Faux vs. Real Flowers

    You are getting married! You have found your venue, photographer, DJ, and caterer and are ready to book your florist!

    Check out florists online and take a look at their photos and style. Ask your friends and co-workers who they used and if they would recommend them. Ask your wedding groups on Facebook for recommendations. Word of mouth from past brides is often the best way to find quality vendors. The brides have real experience with them!

    Also, take some time to decide the look and feel you are imagining for your wedding day………..do you picture fresh, fragrant blooms for your wedding bouquet…. picked as the best stems among them all just for you…..lush and soft blooms for your guests to enjoy as the centerpieces… and one of a kind corsages for Grandma to wear? The centerpieces can be gifted to special guests as they leave or used for gift opening or brunch the next morning.

    OR are you thinking faux florals that you will keep in a shadow box with your invitation, a photo and a garter perhaps? A memento for your bridesmaids to keep?

    Faux or real is the question. Yes, faux flowers can be very budget friendly…..but they can or may look very budget friendly. Often, you will pay double or even triple the cost of a real flower for a faux one that looks real and is quality! So decide on what is most important to you for your wedding…..gorgeous, fragrant flowers in full bloom that will be perfect for your day and you can gift to loved ones or enjoy at home after the event…. or faux ones that you can keep at home forever. The choice is totally yours.

    With fresh, you can preserve them at Suspended in Time out of Adel, IA ( https://www.facebook.com/SuspendedInTimeDSM/ )

    or have them preserved through embroidery at Muted Rose Embroidery on Etsy. ( https://www.facebook.com/MutedRoseMercantile/ )

    These are 2 of our favorite vendors at Baqara!

    Maybe you want to stick to faux and other decor. for your tables and have fresh florals for the bouquets, boutonnieres and corsages for the most special people in your wedding. That is also an option as well!

    The bouquet pictured has real and faux flowers. It gives a pop of silk gold hydrangea and gorgeous white tulips, hydrangeas, roses and a flowing mix of eucalyptus.

    As a florist, fresh flowers are my favorite as I love the fragrance and romance of them as we get to enjoy them at their best for the wedding day! However, I do offer both to bring my brides vision to life!

    Happy floral planning!

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    MO MONEY DOESN’T MEAN MO SERVICE

    “If you want me to take a dump in a box, and mark it guaranteed I will… I’ve got spare time”. – Tommy Boy

    A wise man once asked a wise question: “How do you know the guaranteed fairy isn’t some crazy glue sniffer?” – Tommy Boy…. again. Now lets dial down the abstract and get to the point. In product lines and advertising, a product is only as good as those that create it. A good marketer can sell you a bill of goods but they could also only be interested in their bottom line; which is making the sale.

    When choosing your wedding vendors, take special care in not getting caught up in the “guarantees” of the service. One such “guarantee” is in the form of an assumption. That being the higher the price, the better the service. A $500 DJ and a $2,500 DJ should both make you question their value. What is the difference between a $1,500 photographer and a $3,500 photographer? Most likely experience. What’s the difference between a $3,500 photographer and a $8,000 photographer? An ego? Now I’m not saying this is the case across the board. I’m just saying that one needs to be sure to see a wedding vendor through a lens of value, service, product, and QUALITY. Not just quality.

    As a newly engaged couple, you of course want the wedding of you dreams. So you look for all of the right vendors that best fit your personality and have the exact place, skill, and product possible. The only problem is that, most of the time, this is the only time you have ever planned a wedding. You have no comparison and therefore, have no basis for quality. You rely on what the vendors tell you and rely on your instinct. Instinctually, we believe that a $20,000 price tag on a venue surpasses a $8,000 venue. But by stripping away the layers, you see that the services, the staff, and the product all are better at the latter.

    Some words of advice to all of the newly engaged couples when it comes to filtering your vendors:

    1. Meet all vendors in person. Only exception I have personally is with a select few caterers that multiple friends and family members have given high marks on. Use your first instincts and look for those vendors that sound, entertaining, and energetic. Just being nice doesn’t cut it in a crowded field of professionals.
    2. Do online research for average prices in each of the vendor fields you have interest in. Budget for the mid-high end of the average. Discard the outliers on the low and high end.
    3. Other than marrying the love of your life and enjoying your wedding day, what are your wedding day priorities? In other words, what is most important when weighing your budget constraints:
      1. Venue services
      2. Photographer style
      3. DJ/MC personality
      4. Florist creativity
      5. Caterers food quality
      6. Videographer style

    One last note for you wedding couples, don’t feel like you have to over extend yourself to have a great day. Talk with a wedding professional you trust to set you on the right path. Research, research, research before making a decision on your vendors. If you are looking for more advice or want to see what a service-focused wedding venue really looks like, check out Baqara Reclaimed. As with all of our articles, I hope this serves as an informational and hopeful outlook on your wedding planning needs.

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    DO I NEED A WEDDING PLANNER?

    Do you need a chef to prepare a top grade beef sirloin? Do you need a romantic horse and carriage ride with wine and cheese pairings on a date night? Do you need a long handled sponge to get those hard to reach spots in the shower? Not really, but, one leaves you with a charred taste in your mouth, the second leaves you with a night out to the local IHOP and the the third just leaves you with a dirty back. What I’m trying to say is that you may be able to get by without a wedding planner but the experience is going to be so much smoother and enjoyable with one.

    Wedding planners provide so much knowledge when it comes the wedding world. There is one thing you must understand first though. Planning a wedding and booking vendors is not like going to a restaurant. A restaurant you can try once, maybe try again, go to another and compare against the first, etc. You only have one shot with your wedding and you hope that all goes well. A wedding planner is the perfect mediator to merge those scenarios.

    A wedding planner can help steer you in the right direction when it comes to choosing vendors, they can help you with colors and decorations, they can provide you with a day of timeline, and some provide day-of-coordinating services where they let your wedding party know where to go, where to stand, and when it will all happen. Imagine a wedding planner as a puppet master and the wedding day as the marionette. A wedding planner that is on their game and keeps a close eye on the timeline and the vendors can avoid any awkward moments, any missed opportunities and can stop something from happening before it happens.

    A wedding without a wedding planner is a roll of the dice. The wedding party might not know where to stand during the ceremony, the guests might not know where cards and gifts go, the desserts might be put out too early, and the DJ might be out of sync with the photographers. If a wedding couple hires a wedding planner, they will have been working with the planner for the better part of a year and maybe more. The wedding planner knows:

    • The day of timeline
    • The fine details and unique aspects that the couple wants to incorporate into their day
    • The vendors that are hired and how to coordinate each of the vendors so all of the events of the day flow smoothly
    • If something is out of place or not right based on the wants and needs of the wedding couple

    A wedding planner is an invaluable piece of the equation when it comes to a perfect wedding day. Either before or after you have your venue booked, put some serious thought into hiring a wedding planner. Finding the right wedding planner for you will ensure your wedding day is perfect. Some wedding venues actually provide this as a service as well so be on the lookout for that option. To learn more about having the perfect wedding day, check out the Baqara Wedding Blog.

    Wedding planners provide so much knowledge when it comes the wedding world. There is one thing you must understand first though. Planning a wedding and booking vendors is not like going to a restaurant. A restaurant you can try once, maybe try again, go to another and compare against the first, etc. You only have one shot with your wedding and you hope that all goes well. A wedding planner is the perfect mediator to merge those scenarios.

    A wedding planner can help steer you in the right direction when it comes to choosing vendors, they can help you with colors and decorations, they can provide you with a day of timeline, and some provide day-of coordinating services where they let your wedding party know where to go, where to stand, and when it will all happen. Imagine a wedding planner as a puppet master and the wedding day as the marionette. A wedding planner that is on their game and keeps a close eye on the timeline and the vendors can avoid any awkward moments, any missed opportunities and can stop something from happening before it happens.

    A wedding without a wedding planner is a roll of the dice. The wedding party might not know where to stand during the ceremony, the guests might not know where cards and gifts go, the desserts might be put out too early, and the DJ might be out of sync with the photographers. If a wedding couple hires a wedding planner, they will have been working with the planner for the better part of a year and maybe more. The wedding planner knows:

    The day of timeline

    The fine details and unique aspects that the couple wants to incorporate into their day

    The vendors that are hired and how to coordinate each of the vendors so all of the events of the day flow smoothly

    If something is out of place or not right based on the wants and needs of the wedding couple

    A wedding planner is an invaluable piece of the equation when it comes to a perfect wedding day. Either before or after you have your venue booked, put some serious thought into hiring a wedding planner. Finding the right wedding planner for you will ensure your wedding day is perfect. Some wedding venues actually provide this as a service as well so be on the lookout for that option. To learn more about having the perfect wedding day, contact us today.